What I got to do to be heard?
What do I say when it’s all over babe?
Sorry seems to be the hardest word
It’s sad, so sad, it’s a sad, sad situation
And it’s getting more and more absurd
It’s so sad so sad, why can’t we talk it over?
Oh, it seems to me
That sorry seems to be the hardest word
~ Sorry Seems to Be The Hardest Word, Blue
♥ Saying Sorry to Someone You Love ♥
Saying sorry has never been easy. Those who understand what it really means, know its importance as well. When you say sorry, you accept you are wrong, you have done wrong, and are now asking for forgiveness. While, accepting your mistake is a great deed, asking for forgiveness can be quite difficult. There are times when you hurt someone unknowingly, and sometimes, knowing the consequences, you decide to take chances. If you have hurt your girlfriend, for known and unknown reasons, it’s time to say sorry. Given below are some ways to say sorry to your girlfriend, but the key remains in the emotion you put in. Also remember that when you say sorry, you in a way, promise never to do wrong again. You may also think that there is no reason to say sorry and that it doesn’t matter. However, if you have loved, you will know the importance of making it up to someone you treasure. Read on to know some special ways to apologize, and do so before it’s too late!
The simplest, the best, and yet the hardest one of all the ways to say sorry to your girlfriend. You might think why saying sorry is so difficult when it’s just a word. Sorry cannot make a dead man alive, but it can surely heal a broken heart. If you say sorry and mean it well, you will be forgiven. Call your girlfriend up and tell her that all you want to say is sorry, and you really mean it from the bottom of your heart. Tell her how difficult it is to be without her, and beg for forgiveness. Tell her you can do whatever it takes to make it better again. When you say all this, make sure you don’t include ‘but’ and ‘because’ anywhere in your sentences. You don’t want her hanging up on you forever!
If you are an introvert and words don’t come easy to you, you can still use them as your strongest weapon! Write down whatever it is you want to tell her. A well written letter can work wonders when it comes to convincing a girl, even if she is just your friend. The whole gesture is very sweet. If she’s upset over something that is not very grave, you can use some nice funny proverbs and sayings that will make her smile. Tell her that though you cannot say how much you love her, you want her for eternity. Just like Franz Schubert said, “I want you for always – days, years, eternities.” It is very important that you put in lot of emotion in that letter. A casually written apology letter might portray your feelings negatively.
Sometimes, words fail you. They don’t have the effect you want them to have. Sometimes, depending on the circumstances, you need some more gestures to say sorry. At such times, when you have done what you could, and it hasn’t helped, and now left you helpless, this works. Amongst all the ways to apologize, this is my personal favorite. Convince her to come out with you, just one last time. Just once. Do whatever it takes and make her see you. Pick her up and take her to her favorite restaurant. Order her favorite cuisine and call for her favorite wine. Ask people at the restaurant to play her favorite tracks. Throughout the dinner / lunch, talk about normal stuff. If the conversation gives you a chance to make it up to her, bank on it. If not, after dessert, present her with a card that says SORRY. If you are confident and bold enough, you can also get up from your seat and give a small apology speech in front of everyone. No girl can say no to that, can she?
To change who I used to be
A reason to start over new
And the reason is you.”
If you say sorry once, and forget about it later, it isn’t going to help you much. If a very big reason has caused her to be angry with you, you better be ready to take some extra efforts. If she doesn’t forgive you once, keep at it. Tell her how important she is to you and how your life and you in it, are incomplete without her. Let her know how much you miss her and how things don’t seem right anymore. The best way to do this, is by sending her a text message (or a letter to make it special) every single hour. Yes, doing that will surely make her think that you are sorry. Remind her of memories and special moments through these messages. Gradually, she’ll also understand that being together and being happy is better than being apart and being sad.
Now that you know how to apologize to your girlfriend, start the act soon. The more you delay that sorry, the more neglected and ignored she is going to feel. You don’t need any 101 ways to say sorry to your girlfriend. All you need are some words, some emotion, and a beautiful gesture that shows her she’s still the one, and she’s still loved very much. Everyone makes mistakes, but those who make up for them, are people who love you!