You start dating and slowly realize that not only is he sensitive to your needs, turns out he is a sensitive and needy man himself. Well, we all tend to be clingy and emotional at times, so there’s no judging at this stage. You love him, you do all you can to accommodate his needs, but wait, he wants to come with you at your girls’ night out? He gets upset if you don’t reply instantly to his calls and messages? He gives you ultimatums―either him or your friends? Hang on a minute, these are classy signs of a clingy boyfriend!
At times, it is that little distance that keeps you connected with each other. The excitement to meet him and tell him about your day, the feeling of missing his presence when you are away, all this kind of adds up to the flame of love. And if you don’t get that distance, if there is literally nothing new to share or discuss, the excitement in the relationship ceases, and slowly, the relationship becomes more of a burden, a trap, a suffocating nothing! The success of the implementation of the aforementioned steps varies from case to case. We have seen cases where the guy has really changed, of course, with time and a lot of patience, but it has happened. On the other hand, there are certain guys who suspect your intentions behind every advice given to them. Probably you’re saying it to mask your affair? Alternately, there are some guys who are well aware of these clingy tendencies, and yet, they choose to not do anything about it. If you really don’t know what to do with your guy, then, it comes down to just this one thing: Make a decision, take it or break it.